Hope in Heartache. A Story.
In June, 2012, I met Nettie Kelsey at a speaking and writing conference in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Both Hoosiers, we connected at the opening session. As I have gotten to know Nettie, I’ve had the...
View ArticleGod Hasn’t Moved
Nettie Kelsey experienced a mother’s heartache in losing one son in a car accident and another son to prison because he was the driver of that car. Hope came when he was also sentenced to drug rehab....
View ArticleCharacter Development
This past week, as our youngest celebrated a milestone birthday. But that wasn’t the real milestone. The real marker is all the changes in our life over the last 13 years. Life-changing changes...
View ArticleQuiet
Tomorrow, in schools across America, children and teachers will enter schools and classrooms different people. Parents will walk through familiar routines with interrupting thoughts. “They lost their...
View ArticleJust. No. Words.
I’ve got to be honest. In light of recent national events, I sit down to write asking, “Why? Why should I continue putting even more words in social media when there’s already too much? Too many...
View ArticleSnapshots Beyond the Picket Fence
Snapshot One: A family celebrates as their son receives an organ transplant. A true miracle. Hope for new life is with them! Snapshot Two: A family watches their little son fade away before their eyes...
View ArticleInspiring Stories: Tanya’s Story
I have the humble privilege to share Tanya’s Glanzman’s story of being an overcomer and survivor of childhood abuse, abandonment, and neglect. Tanya is a remarkable woman. She is a contributing...
View ArticleParenting Series: What I Learned from My Mother-In-Law
I’ve revisited the life of my mother-in-law with many of you this week. One person who knew her commented, “Lois not only made a positive impact on her family but on her church and the community as...
View ArticleTaking Risks Despite the Gloomy Forecast
I’m going to try” I said. Snow was no longer coming down, but school had just been canceled. The winds were blowing snow across the road in front of our house. I checked the weather between Indiana...
View ArticleThe Sound of Silence
And there was silence in Heaven. Revelation 8:1 I don’t feel right writing, but in my selfishness, I do. The tears roll down my face today. My heart is broken. Broken for a childhood friend who lost...
View ArticleWinter’s Here, But Spring is Coming
Like other parts of the Midwest, Spring is coming late this year on the Back Forty. As I write, the calendar says Spring has arrived, but snow is pelting the window. I’m a whiner about March anyway,...
View ArticleInspiring Stories: Ingrid’s Story
It’s my great privilege to have a dear friend share her story of cancer survival. This is Ingrid’s story: My friend holds her daughter’s hand, whispering prayers as the daughter lay in the Intensive...
View ArticleMother’s Day: Inspiring Women and Messed-Up Experiences in Motherhood
Today is Mother’s Day – the day we think of the blessings of motherhood. In reflecting on this day, I’m reminded of inspiring women who had messed-up experiences in motherhood. Many biblical women...
View ArticleIf Heaven Were A Place and Why I Stay Away
He stands in an empty room. It’s quite and still, but his heart speaks to memories the he holds. I couldn’t stand in that room, so I stay away. There are moments when the pain of what is gone is …...
View ArticleThe Legacy of Being Real
There’s a story called The Velveteen Rabbit. It’s about a stuffed animal that was drug around by a Boy during the magical moments of childhood, through sickness and fear. What is Real? the Velveteen...
View ArticleThe Power of Honoring Our Stories
I sat across from her. In the glow of the restaurant, she looked away and spoke from her pain. She was honest with me. I heard and understood her. The book of her life opened. It began making sense to...
View ArticleFinding Calm by Jennifer Barnes Maggio
I’m excited to help launch Choose Now team member Jennifer Barnes Maggio’s new book for single parents! Eighteen years ago, I gazed into the eyes of my unbelievably beautiful first-born. I sat in the...
View ArticleAn Open Letter to a New Stay At Home Mom
Dear Ellen, Today will be one of the hardest days you’ll face. You’re leaving a job you love so you can spend more time with your children, those two sweet babies who bring you both joy and exhaustion...
View ArticleHearing The Voices Of Freedom
It’s been a long time since I’ve really written. From the heart. Heart writing requires time – time to reflect, time to write down what whispers in your soul. I don’t know where to start – whether to...
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